Thursday, February 19, 2009

Blessing Or Curse

OR




Love - Keisha cole

I was talking with a friend the other day and the topic of love came up. In our discussion this comment was made….”Love is like 2 edged sword. It can be the source of great joy, yet the source of great pain. Think bout it love songs can make u happy or sad dependin on your experience.

This got me to thinking..and yall know how much of that I do lol…there’s so much truth in that comment. Love is truly something that has caused me to feel like im on cloud 9 and above but it has also caused me to feel like im cloud 0 is so far above me. Love has caused me to smile to myself..feel like life is good and it can’t get no betta. It’s caused me to lose sleep, not eat, cry and rock myself for comfort…im talking bout that cryin when ur eyes and nose are leakin, lips quivering, wantin ur mommy type of cry lol
…shut up..yall know u’ve been there before lol…but I know if it wasn’t for the bad experiences wit love I wouldn’t know how to appreciate it

Love is something that we all desire but are we truly ready for it? Love is something that grows and develops over time..it should get deeper and more meaningful as time progresses. I’ve had that type of love before…when my every thought is on that other person…when I jus wanna b wit them…when the conversation is so easy and caring is second nature….the long talks, the helping hand, the little things that mean so much….when u and that other person jus wanna be there for each other in everyway possible…when u jus wanna shout out that u love whoever it is…and they feel the same way bout u as u do for them

I miss that

So my fellow bloggers…wut do u think? Is love a blessing, a curse, or a lil of both? Does the bad make u appreciate the good? Are you ready for everything that comes along with it?

14 comments:

ShawnQt said...

I totally agree. You should look up LOVE on wikipedia, very interesting stuff!

ShawnQt said...

oh yeah... your time will come!

Ms. Angie said...

I see it as more of a blessing. The blessing you get from love is that life experience, rather joy or pain you have been blessed with the option to grow. Ultimatly growing is what defines you, Being you is the greates blessing from God.

Peace,
Angie

Pharaoh said...

I like Ms Angie's response.

Here's the slim, anything that can mean soo much and give soo much joy, has to have a balance and that balance is how deeply it can hurt you.

fuzzy said...

Love is a blessing. As long as I have my security blanket, and a decent dvd to watch, I dont need love! lmao... Damn I need to get a coupla more dvds...

fuzzy said...

FYI i'm an equal cross of Linus and Charlie Brown... You figure it out...

Dana said...

Love seems more intense when its brand new. No flaws or mistakes...clean slates. The butterflies swarm and the nights drag on while waiting for the next day to see your beloved....thats the blessing. The curse is being tricked into thinking it will always feel this way...expectations, complacency...lack of creativity...sigh...i fuggin love the idea of love!!! It will find you when you give up on it!

Oyin said...

I cant even begin to think of love.....cos it makes me soooo sick

D-Place said...

Love is always a blessing. It's just feels like a curse when it's gone and you want more and it's not available.

deonte' k said...

I see it as a blessing.

xivinrah. said...

Love hates me. =(

But I'm more than certain that it is a blessing to those who are fortunate enough to have it.

Acoustic Soul said...

Love is a beautiful thing. Love comes in so many different forms, that you can't help but be affected by it. Being IN love is a show of it's own.

Nobody not really... said...

Love is the best AND the worse thing in the world, but if put to correct use, it will make up for all the bad it has ever caused...

RocaFella07 said...

"Love" is...Something else!

;-)